How To Spice Up Your Relationship Ideas That Will Work

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Surprises, random gifts, loving gestures can do wonders to spice up your relationship.

“I have a surprise planned for tonight, honey.”

Imagine you are stuck at work, and this message pops up. You cannot concentrate on your work anymore because you start throwing wild guesses. The excitement can take your relationship to a whole new level. Isn’t it?

If you wish to plan something similar for your partner but fall short of ideas, you are at the right place. We share some exciting ideas that you may try with your partner to spice up your relationship in this post.

If you wish to plan something similar for your partner but fall short of ideas, you are at the right place. We share some exciting ideas that you may try with your partner to spice up your relationship in this post.

Here are some magical ways to make your relationship spicier:

Prioritize your relationship: Don’t let your relationship take a backseat. Don’t make excuses for being busy, tired, or just not in the mood. Invest time in your relationship so that you never have to end up repairing or rebuilding it.

Just like you need to workout for a healthy body and meditate for a healthy mind, you need to constantly work on your relationship to make it long-lasting and successful.
Take care of yourself: Only when you are healthy and feel good about yourself, can you take care of your partner. So, remember to eat right, stay fit, and sleep well. A healthy body results in a healthy mind and that clearly reflects in your relationship.

Spend quality time together: Date nights are good, but it’s more important to spend quality time without any intrusions or distractions. Whether you decide to get intimate, cozy, or just spend time talking, make sure it’s worthwhile.

Give your partner space and have your space: Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you have to be with him or her 24/7. You are two separate individuals who need your space and freedom. So, hang out with your friends, pamper yourself at the spa, or just spend some time alone reading a book or watching TV. Let your partner do the same.

Point to consider
Maintaining your individuality is essential in any relationship. So take time to work on yourself, which will positively reflect on your relationship as well.

Make those small sacrifices: Small things such as stepping out of your comfort zone can help you a great deal in your relationship. For instance, your partner is an adventurous person who loves trekking, cycling, camping and walking in the woods but you like to stay at home having a heart-to-heart talk over dinner. For a change, join him in his adventure. He will be pleasantly surprised, and you too would be surprised to realize your potential.

Express your love often: He loves you, and you love him — that is known, so why express it often? It rekindles your love, and is a reassurance to your partner. No matter how long you have come in your relationship, don’t stop from expressing your love for your partner and do it as often as you can. It strengthens their trust in you.

Have gratitude: Gratitude makes you attractive. Be grateful for all the things that are working in your life and stop complaining about those which aren’t happening. Positive thinking and behavior are associated with better quality of life, and that makes you more attractive to your partner.

Make your hugs last longer: Hug as often as you can and make it last longer and watch how the magic unfolds. Here are a few facts about hugging: hugging increases the ‘love hormone’ (oxytocin) levels and reduces the negative effects of stress (1).
Argue less, listen more: As you are well into your relationship you tend to take it for granted, sometimes even giving a deaf ear to your partner. Make it a habit of listening actively and arguing less. by having dialogue or conversation. By doing that you show that you respect and care for them.

Satisfy their ego: Compliment your spouse for the things you like in them. Tell them how good they look or how sweet they speak. It will not only boost their confidence but also make them love you more than ever.

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